One Good Weekend Treat

l-r: the family man, his two boys, his nephew, his bestfriend


the family was treated by papa to the zoo and took along Sami's favorite cousin, Ahmed


the boys were so eager to touch the huge and walking "teddy bear" lol

Ahmed: "Did u like the popcorn?"

Sami: "Let's give him some more!"

this tiger was proudly trotting (even prouder than the lion who looks old, sick and tired and who refused a foto-shoot and opted to sleep) as the boys were kept amazed at how big, lean and snobbish he was.

feeding the pony with...popcorn!

this was my favorite sight...long necked, long legged, graceful, and most of all PINK!!!!

Super models...in pink and white, luminous, dazzling, i love them. i wanted to take two home but couldn't. sigh....

with Ami Dafer feeding the ostriches with popcorn, our signature feeds. lol.

another amusing and amazing sight for the boys...

this is a beauty. another favorite of mine. it's a divine art work. Mashallah!

hello there bear!

Papa, Leaf, Sam and Ahmed...all waiting for the bears to come closer.

It was a wonderful treat from husband dear though he informed me of his plan just a few hours before. Typical Libyan but sweet. We did not get to tour the entire zoo because the boys were getting hungry and we saw the rain coming. Dafer, my husband's friend came along to help us with the boys. He is such a sweet man (and nanny, lol) and we kept on hoping and praying he will finally find someone to love and who will love him back.

the rain came a few minutes after we finished our sandwiches. it was one good weekend.

and oh, husband dear got to take me out shopping with the boys the day before and i got myself two pairs of nice and comfortable maternity clothes for a good price of 85 LD.

Heaven to my Heart

I saw these photos from a cd and could not describe well enough the emotions that came rushing through me...

oh how time travels fast, far away from us

though leaving us something close to hold on to.

Memories...

Love Means Sacrifice, Not Selfishness

This is from my daily devotional, and one big lesson i need to learn and live.

Love Means Sacrifice, Not Selfishness
by Joyce Meyer

No matter how long you may live, you’ll never stop learning. Every minute of every day brings new opportunities to learn something we’ve never known before. As long as we’re open to receive, God will continue to teach us every day.

I’m still learning, and I know I always will be. What God teaches me every day about love continues to change my life. I’ve come to the place where I can honestly say, “Lord, eliminate everything in my life that’s holding me back. Please take away anything that’s keeping me from walking in love and finding true fulfillment in my life.” In other words, “Lord, reduce me to love—bring me to a state or condition of walking in love completely!”

One of the most important facets I’ve learned about love is unselfishness, which is characterized in the Bible as a willingness to sacrifice one’s own wishes for those of others. I’ve learned that true love will always adapt and adjust to the needs and desires of other people.

It’s impossible for people who’ve truly been reduced to love to be selfish. God has taught them how to be totally adaptable and adjustable to others. Selfish people, on the other hand, have hard hearts. It’s very difficult for them to learn anything—especially if it involves self-sacrifice. They expect everyone else to adjust to them and their needs. They simply don’t know how to adjust to others without becoming angry or upset.

Learning to adapt and adjust to the needs and desires of others was very difficult for me. To be honest, I wanted my way, and I got upset when I didn’t get it. I was selfish! I wanted what I wanted, when I wanted it! I couldn’t stand having to wait on someone else or bending my own wishes to accommodate someone else’s timetable.

But God began to soften my heart, and gradually I learned to see the needs of others. Then God gave me compassion—the heartfelt desire to meet the needs of others first before my own.

Slowly, I became committed to walking in love. I learned to adapt my own needs and desires in order to help meet the needs of others. I learned how to show love in different ways to different people. Not all people need the same thing from us. One of our children, for example, may need more of our personal time than the others. One of our friends may need more encouragement on a regular basis than another.

For example, all of my family members need me, my employees need me, my friends need me—and they all need me in different ways.

Do I ever feel too needed? Of course! We all feel overwhelmed from time to time. But I remind myself that God gives me grace for whatever He places in my life, and I’m fortunate to be loved and needed by so many.

If I ever get weary of always trying to be available to meet the needs of others, I remind myself of all the years I lived in selfishness and how unhappy I was. Now I’m just making up for lost time! When I think on this, it doesn’t take long for me to adjust my attitude. After all, just telling people “I love you” is not enough. We need to go beyond the words and actually do something to help meet their needs.

My husband, Dave, loves to play golf, so I try to make sure our schedule gives him opportunities to play. But there was a time when it angered me for him to play golf. I was miserable because I hadn’t learned to adjust to his needs or desires. I wanted him to make all the adjustments.

I never acknowledged the many ways in which Dave adjusted to my needs. I never saw what he did do—only what he didn’t—and it was ruining our relationship. I’m glad that I’ve learned to adapt and adjust. It was a little hard on me for a while, but it saved our marriage.

Once you’ve been reduced to love, you’ll have no trouble establishing and maintaining good, healthy relationships with others. Your primary goal in life will be to put the wishes of others before your own. You’ll learn that true love is all about sacrifice and selfishness will be a thing of the past.

The Way to Silence Sam

My Boys Lately

Weekend at Tarek's workplace in Janzour.

At a Filipino Community party at Pasotti, Tripoli.